Words are symbols that help us negotiate the world. It’s only by agreement that they are able to do this. We understand what the word ‘bird’ describes. There are hundreds of varieties of birds with wingspans ranging from a few inches to a dozen feet (Albatross) but that one word defines something quite distinct.

Words that describe physical objects – table, chair, car, phone – along with those that describe physical attributes – time, distance, motion, speed – help us negotiate the world.

Difficulties arise when words are used to describe something conceptual or philosophical – love, truth, evil, morality, honesty. Our symbols fail us when we get into these gray areas of life. Civil courts are filled with people who’ve acted in ways they believe are right and fair opposed by those who believe otherwise.

A criminal act is often felt to be justified. And what is an illegal act but something previously agreed upon by a group of people. Unlawful actions must by their very nature be immoral. Morality is just a concept. Much of what passes for entertainment today would not have been tolerated by the public 20 years ago.

We use the same words but the meanings have changed. They change because the words describe ideas that exist only within our mind. Most of us can agree that immoral behavior should be restricted. We just don’t agree on what constitutes morality.

The next time you find yourself in a heated argument take a step back and ask yourself, is this about something real or is it conceptual. Most of our ideas have a basis in reality. We care about health, family, safety, and all that goes with being able to enjoy the fruits of life. It gets tricky when we try to legislate it.

Language has enabled us to accomplish wonderful things. And sometimes our words just make everything more confusing.