What is real? What is of value? What is important?
Here is a test. It works every time. It is never wrong.
If it can be taken away, it is not real. Anything of value can never be taken from you. Only that which has perceived value can be taken away.
Anything that is real can only be given. It is never diminished. Give all you have and there is more. The circle is complete. Give freely and receive graciously.